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If you think the devil is the man on the Hot Sauce bottle, you got another thing coming
If you are with someone and you lose your best friends and family because of the person you are dating, you been brainwashed. They are not against you but care for your wellbeing. They knew who you were before he or she came into your life. Let me tell you, it’s easier to be on the outside looking in to help you see what’s going on. It’s hard for you to see because you are in the relationship. When you start to say comments like “No one understands him or her” beware!
Be humble enough to ask a trusted friend or family member “Have I been brainwashed by this person I have been with?” Sometimes they move you away from friends and family so they can have total control over your life. I know we don’t like honest answers but we are talking about your future with the one you are dating. The definition of Brainwashed is: a forcible indoctrination to induce someone to give up basic political, social, or religious beliefs and attitudes and to accept contrasting regimented ideas
If your moral lifestyle has been compromised because of the person you’re with; you have been brainwashed. The sex might have been so good (turned you out) that you felt like this is the one person for me and you overlooked all of the flaws this person has. It’s much easier to brainwash someone after you have slept with them. If you don’t plan on marrying this person, why are you with them? If you are not going to marry this person ultimately the two of you have two destinations: the bed and a broken heart. Now you have another person under your belt (and in your spirit).
I’m sure you know someone who been in a new relationship and after a while that person “changed.” They used to go to Church every Sunday, attend singles Ministry and was very sociable. Now they are isolated and don’t return your calls as much. It’s very important to know what you are getting into when dating. Some don’t take dating as serious, getting involved with someone can have positive or negative effects. I have seen people grow because of the person they are with and seen people get worst because of the person they are with. Surround yourself with a selected few who has your best interest. What are your thoughts? Leave a comment below.
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