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Women always want to know how to find the right man. Men on the other hand don’t seem to want to ask. So they date different women and not have a clue what to look for. In the meantime, he is caught in many webs. Men also get hurt in relationships. But the biggest hurt is to marry the wrong woman for the wrong reasons. Not knowing can lead you in that path of a wrong marriage, a miserable life, and/or divorce (the ultimate pain). Whether in dating or marriage, A WOMAN CAN EITHER MAKE YOU OR BREAK YOU!
Being a man, you can’t show those feelings of hurt or you’ll feel weak. But these are real feelings. Men have hearts too, but they may react in ways of hurting other woman. Some women like to call men dogs, but it can be traced to a woman who hurt him or another man’sbitterness of women telling younger guys to get some more notches on his belt (have sex with many women as he can).
The book of Proverbs speaks about how a woman can break you in the dating scene (please read Prov. 5 & 7). And there a woman met him, with the attire of a harlot, and a crafty heart. With her enticing speech she caused him to yield. With her flattering lips she seduced him. Till an arrow struck his liver. As a bird hastens to the snare, He did not know it would cost his life. For she has cast down many wounded, and all who were slain by her were STRONG MEN. (Prov.7:10, 21, 23). There are several signs to name a few: dressing too revealing, being very seductive, confrontational, manipulative, and controlling. But If you don’t pay attention to these signs in the beginning then you will be caught in her web. Not all these women do it intentionally (they may not know any better). But these signs will be magnified or lead to worse things in marriage.
Look for Godly traits in a woman such as: respects herself and others, a quiet and gentle spirit (1 Pet 3:4),honest, standards, beautiful and classy without revealing all of her goodies, endurance, faithfulness, and most of all a close relationship with GOD.